What does it take to have a mind-blowing orgasm?
ATTENTION and FOCUS!
You have to be able to pay attention to the feeling long enough to make it happen.
Research by Barry Komisaruk has uncovered that women have the amazing ability to bring themselves to orgasm simply through thinking and focus, without any physical stimulation at all! He found that when women thought about a part of their body being stimulated – a finger, a toe, a nipple, or clitoris – the corresponding part of the sensory cortex of their brain would be activated, just as if they were actually being touched. This is a pretty powerful ability!
If you find yourself thinking about your grocery list or tomorrow’s schedule during intimate times with your lover, bring your attention back into the moment and think about the building sensation to intensify what you’re feeling. A little bit of focus and attention could result in a very real increase in pleasure!
Many people can block out things they don’t need to think about. However, brain imaging studies show that most people with ADD experience prefrontal cortex shutdown during concentration tasks. This means that the part of the brain involved with focusing on reaching orgasm may actually shut down